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Sunday, May 31, 2009

Happy 14th Birthday!!

To...
His Royal Highness, Alexander the Cat
Alexander entered my life nearly 14 years ago. I found his mom hiding in the stairwell in my condo building. She looked like a small kitten herself, but she had her four tiny kittens with her. I contacted a local rescue organization to see what could be done. I didn't care much for cats, but greatly preferred dogs, so I had no intention of keeping one. I did agree, however, to safehouse them until they were old enough to be adopted.
At the time I found them, the vet estimated they were about 10 days old, so their birthday was calculated to have been May 31st. The mama kitty tested negative for major diseases, so the kitties were assumed to be healthy too. Alexander nearly didn't survive his first few weeks. While not exactly sickly, he was not thriving. In fact, none of them were exactly thriving. I've always assumed it was because the mama kitty was still just a young kitten herself. She must have been someone's pet though, because she was litterbox trained from the beginning. She trained her kittens as well, lucky for me.
Anyway, given their weak start in life, we gave them strong names. Mama kitty became Cleopatra. The two make kittens became Alexander and Sampson. The two female kittens became Allegra and Reina.
Once they were weaned, it was time to hand them over for adoption. I had grown extremely attached to all four of the kittens and found it quite difficult to let them go. Cleopatra was not as difficult. She was not a friendly kitty, and was not an especially good mama to her babies. I ended up adopting Sampson and Alexander myself. I couldn't keep four of them in my condo. I didn't want to separate them, either, so I kept both of the boys.
Alexander and Sampson were with me through my divorce. They moved with me to my new home. They were with me when I remarried, and when we moved into our new home. They were with me through the birth of our daughter, Princess E.
When Princess E was born, she had a number of medical concerns. Her pulmonologist recommended several changes, including removing the cats from the house. It broke my heart to have to give them up; but I couldn't allow my daughter to suffer. For over a year, I tried to find a new home for my boys. I refused to simply drop them off at a shelter and hope for the best. After a year, I realized I was either going to have to leave them at a shelter, or find some other alternative, because I could not find a new home for them. I took them back to our vet and we made plans to introduce my lifelong, indoor kitties to the great big outdoors. It wasn't an ideal situation, but it was all we could do.
The boys adapted well to living outdoors. Our neighbor fell in love with them, and they spent a lot of time visiting at her house. Within a couple of months, the boys were visiting the neighbors all around us. Unfortunately, we lost Sampson all too soon, after he discovered antifreeze (we think) at a neighbor's house. Alexander searched for his brother for weeks.
As Princess E grew, her breathing issues became less problematic. Alexander is now an indoor/outdoor cat. In the winter, he stays indoors most of the time. In nice weather, especially during the spring, he prefers to be outside. I'm sure the birdies and squirrels would much prefer that he remain inside. We have no birdfeeders or other things to entice them. That just seems mean.
Alexander is now fourteen years old. He's a little slower, not much. He's still a playful fellow. His fur is still so very soft.
Happy Birthday Alexander! (aka FuzzBucket, FuzzMuffin and Cheez-It) I hope you have many more healthy years of life. I love having you as the furry member of our family. No, you may not get a birthday treat out of the aquarium.

Friday, May 29, 2009

Dinner Out

Tonight, King J and I went out for dinner together, just the two of us. It's a fairly rare treat. We went to Texas de Brazil to celebrate our anniversary. Oh man, what a great place to eat!

We start our meal by visiting the salad bar. The salad bar is loaded with a variety of cheeses, such as fried provolone, goat cheese and fresh mozzarella. To accompany the cheeses are a variety of roasted vegetables, proscuitto, and artesan breads. Vegetable selections include steamed asparagus and hearts of palm. There are just so many choices, it's hard to decide. They also have sushi and smoked salmon.

After the salad bar, it's time to check out the sides. Their lobster bisque is just incredibly delicious. I could eat a meal of just the soup. They have black beans and rice, as well as potatoes au gratin. Now, I'm not much on the sides. So, I just taste them and wait for the main course.

The meats are served by gauchos bearing swords laden with succulent, tender meats that have been slowly cooked over an open fire grill. The choices are a little different each time we go. Tonight, I had bacon wrapped chicken breast, parmesan chicken, lamb chops, roasted leg of lamb, bacon wrapped filet mignon, beef roast and a sirloin steak. Oh my, did I really eat all that? One of the things I like about them is they will prepare the meats to order when requested. They prepare my beef and lamb to well done and bring it out to me.

Between courses, they serve fried bananas. The idea is to use them to clear the palate. I, on the other hand, prefer to enjoy them as dessert. It's the perfect finish to a delicious meal.

My favorite thing about TdB is the service. They work as a team. Beverages are kept full. When I leave the table for a moment, my napkin is refolded and a clean plate awaits my return. Special orders are offered, rather than having to request them.

This was the first time we came alone. Normally, Princess E is with us. We even celebrated an early birthday with her there last year. Until their seventh birthdays, children are complimentary at TdB. She was able to explore the menu and find all kinds of new foods to enjoy.

If you live in an area where TdB has a location, I recommend you give them a try at least once. Check out their website here.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

On the highway of life...

...two souls meet.



Those were the words on our wedding cake.



Has it really been nine years? Seems like only yesterday. We've both got a few more gray hairs, although mine are much more noticable.

I am so very thankful that God chose you for me. I look forward to many more years together, too.

Happy Anniversary, King J! I Love You!

Monday, May 25, 2009

Not Me! Monday!

Not Me! Monday!



Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

King J did not get up at dawn this morning to go outside and lower our flag to half-staff for Memorial Day.

This morning, I did not get up extra early, long before my family, so that I would have time to mop my kitchen floor before the daily rush of traffic. After all, it isn’t a day when I could sleep in or anything.

After I didn’t mop the kitchen floor, I did not decide to start the ice cream base for the homemade ice cream we will have later today. I most assuredly did not somehow manage to spill the egg yolk/sugar slurry onto my freshly not mopped floor, and splatter it over the front of my stove and cabinets.

After I didn’t put the ice cream base together, I did not go to set it in the refrigerator to cool and knock over a quart of soy milk in the process. The soy milk container did not burst open on contact with the floor and soy milk did not spill and spray across the floor I did not earlier mop. None of the soy milk ran under the refrigerator either, and I didn’t have to push and prod and struggle to get it cleaned up. I also did not have to re-mop the floor, since I hadn’t mopped it in the first place.

Once the ice cream base I didn’t make was not safely stored in the refrigerator and the soy milk wasn’t cleaned up, I did not decide to start a pot of coffee. I would not do that, considering how my kitchen skills had not presented themselves this morning. In the process of not adding water to the coffeemaker, I did not spill said water in a puddle on my kitchen floor. As I didn’t pull the mop out yet again, I did not contemplate going back to bed and trying again in a few hours.

I also did not take a moment to put all this in perspective, then have a good chuckle at myself. I didn’t consider how silly it was to be frustrated over spilled milk, sticky egg mixture or water puddles. I didn’t think about how I could be sitting in a war zone right now, wishing I could brush my teeth or take a shower to get the gritty sand off me. I didn’t think about all the headstones in our national cemeteries that represent those who gave their lives so I could have the freedom to make a big mess in my kitchen and write a post about it.

Later today, before we go have a fun cookout, our family will not be visiting our local war memorial to pause a moment and remember to be thankful.

What haven’t you been up to this week?

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Little Visitor

This morning, it was just starting to drizzle. So, I stepped outside to gather some lettuce from our garden for our dinner later. As I stepped off our deck, this little guy startled me. He's just a little baby, and he couldn't yet fly. But, I frightened him, far more than he startled me. The poor thing jumped off our deck and flapped his wings as best he could. He landed rather abruptly in the closest garden bed. He screamed as he jumped. I've never heard a bird scream before. It wasn't pleasant! He was close enough that I could feel the wind from his wing flapping on the side of my face. I nearly jumped out of my skin!

His Mom and Dad were watching closely. I just stood still and let him get away from me. King J shoo'ed our cat out of the back yard. The little bluejay hopped, yes hopped, through the back yard to the brush/compost pile in the back. I didn't dare get too close. Momma bird kept a watchful eye above and behind me. Daddy bird kept a watchful eye from directly above him. I knew if I got too close, they would attack.

I ran inside and got my camera and popped on the telephoto lens. Then, I zoomed in as far as it would go.

After I got a good photo, we went back in the house. We realized his nest was just above our deck and he must have just recently left the nest. He was really rather small, for a bluejay. Isn't he beautiful? What a treat to see this fellow today.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Princess E

We played outside yesterday, on what seemed like a cool autumn day.
Something's a little mixed up with the weather! The princess decided to
make a new toy for His Royal Highness, Alexander the Cat. Being rather
creative, she took some bark off a pine tree and wrapped it with grass, like
the ribbons on a gift box. Then, she popped a few flowers in, such as
dandelions and clover. I caught her unaware and was rewarded with this
image.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Spring Dance

The Spring Dance at school was this past weekend. Princess E had a great time showing off all her moves! Maybe one day she'll be on dancing with the stars. Then again, probably not.

Friday, May 15, 2009

Mallard

We found this little duck perched at the side of a wading pool, very near where the blackbird was found.

Kameron's Earring Contest

Kameron, over at A Wrinkle In Time, recently hosted a contest to win a pair of lovely earrings. Her precious little boy, Natey, had the privilege of drawing names. And, guess what? I was one of the winners!!! A few days later, this cute pair of earrings showed up in my mailbox. They went perfectly with my Mother's Day outfit, don't you think?

Please visit Kameron's blog and read all about her life as a mommy, a scientist, and a wife.

Many thanks to Kameron for hosting the contest!

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Canadian Maple

We discovered this beautiful Canadian Maple during our visit to Riverfront Park in Spokane, Washington last summer. Such a beautiful place. It was the site of the 1974 World's Fair.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Seagulls

These lovely gulls were wading around at the edge of the ocean on our last visit to the beach. Just off the shore was a small fishing boat, and these fellows were hoping for an easy meal.

We Heart Art - Music

Welcome to the "We Heart Art" carnival, co-hosted by Sara of Domestically
Challenged, the Three Bay B Chicks (Thuy, Kacey, and Francesca), and Helene of I'm Living Proof that God has a Sense of Humor.

Princess E has a lot of musical talent. Here, at age 4, she is found singing at our Vacation Bible School Community Carnival. Isn't she great?!?

How many four year olds know the names of all 50 states?

We Heart Art - Scrapbooking

Welcome to the "We Heart Art" carnival, co-hosted by Sara of Domestically
Challenged, the Three Bay B Chicks (Thuy, Kacey, and Francesca), and Helene of I'm Living Proof that God has a Sense of Humor.
I've been scrapping for a number of years. I don't follow any prescribed method, I just let my books represent me. Here are a few pages I've done over the years.

Princess E at the Grand Canyon

Our Wedding

My Virtual Baby Shower (Yes, I was huge!)

Bathtime with Daddy

The family in San Francisco

We Heart Art - Photography

Welcome to the "We Heart Art" carnival, co-hosted by Sara of Domestically
Challenged, the Three Bay B Chicks (Thuy, Kacey, and Francesca), and Helene of I'm Living Proof that God has a Sense of Humor.


Rather than put up just one post with photography, I figured I'd link to my photography blog. Betcha didn't know I kept a separate photoblog! Look around and tell me what you think!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Pansies

These beautiful faces were in a flower bed outside our church. See them smiling?

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Monday, May 11, 2009

We Heart Art - My Cakes

Welcome to the "We Heart Art" carnival, co-hosted by Sara of Domestically
Challenged, the Three Bay B Chicks (Thuy, Kacey, and Francesca), and Helene of I'm Living Proof that God has a Sense of Humor.

I'll be putting up a few of my own art projects for everyone to see, not just my daughter's projects. Here, we have a sampling of my cakes. Please don't rat me out to Cake Wrecks. None of these were technically "sold", therefore I cannot count myself as a professional cake designer, so Cake Wrecks can't use me as an example of what not to do. Just for the record, I visit Cake Wrecks regularly, just to see the cake disasters.

First up (because that's how Blogger loaded them) is my Resurrection Cake. A little Polly Pocket figurine stands as the angel waiting to spread the News.

This was just a sweet little cake I made to try out a few techniques.

The Noah's Ark Cake. I made this one for a silent auction to raise money for a school.



The Lighthouse. I made this one for my Aunt's birthday several years ago. Yes, those are real seashells.


The Froggie. Ribbit.


This one represents Old MacDonald's Farm. I made this cake for Princess E's 3rd birthday. The walkways and inside fences are edible candies.


Blues Clues. My very first decorated cake.

I made this one for Princess B's 5th birthday. Notice the 5 swans floating.

Finally, here is the cake I made for my Mom one year for her birthday.

Are you hungry yet?

Black Bird

We encountered this little Red-Winged Blackbird while visiting Crystal Springs Rhododendron Garden in Portland, Oregon.




Listen to him...


We Heart Art

I jumped at a chance to show off my daughter's artwork for the "We Heart Art" carnival, co-hosted by Sara of Domestically Challenged, the Three Bay B Chicks (Thuy, Kacey, and Francesca), and Helene of I'm Living Proof that God has a Sense of Humor.
Princess E decorated these 2" Christmas Tree magnets when she was just three years old.

At Valentine's Day the next year, she made this in preschool.

Later that same year, she decorated this turtle. I wonder what Elijah would think of this little guy.

As Princess E got older, she started doing more of her own artwork. This may not look as fancy, but it is 100% hers. This was done in art during first grade. Notice the colorful heart, the bird and the fish. That, by the way, is a lionfish. Get it? A lion face on a fish.

This was a project from first grade as well. They were learning about how they can show God's love using their hands. She traced hers. (I think the stick-people are supposed to be singing; but they kinda look like they are screaming.)

In art class, they practiced Hopi weaving. We had the opportunity to visit Arizona and learn about the Hopi people during our 2007 vacation.

This was her Mother's Day project last year. She decorated a butterfly cutout and glued fragrant potpourri to it.

Finally, this was her Mother's Day project this year. She made me this lovely, heart-shaped trinket box. She formed it and painted it. Her art teacher took all these projects home and baked the glaze. How sweet! I can't think of a more wonderful Mother's Day gift!

Many thanks to our hostesses for planning this Blog Carnival.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mother's Day


This is my Mom, whom I made a mother. (Okay, my Dad's there, too, but since we're talking about mom's, he's a bonus!) Also pictured is Princess B, who made me a step-mom, and Princess E, who turned me into a mama. I am blessed to still have my Mom and I am doubly blessed to be a mom.

Mother's Day remains a difficult day for me. When I was in my twenties, I went through several years of infertility treatments, without success. Eventually, my then-husband and I decided to stop trying. In many ways, this was a blessing, since we eventually ended up divorcing, and no child suffered because of it. But, during all of those years, Mother's Day was painful.

The only way I could manage was by focusing on HAVING a mother, rather than BEING a mother. I remember the day my focus changed. I was sitting in church, on Mother's Day, watching a little girl who was in my Sunday School class. I was teaching four year old's back then. I had often found myself angry at her mother, because she sent her five children to church on Sunday's with no breakfast. From what the older children said, the only time the children got to eat was at school. Eventually, the mom abandoned the children, and custody was given to their father. He turned out to be a great dad, he just hadn't been given a chance before. Anyway, this little girl sat on that pew on that Mother's Day with tears streaming down her face. All she wanted was her Mother. I realized then that I needed to focus on being thankful for having a mother.

Fast forward a few years. When King J and I married, he already had a daughter. I became an instant step-mom. Princess B was just two at the time.

When we found out we were expecting Princess E, it was quite the surprise! Given my history, we had no thoughts of having a biological child. Princess E made me a "MOM", er, well, Mama.

Today, I still find Mother's Day difficult. Yes, I am thankful to still have my mom with me. I know how blessed I am to have my own daughter. But, I still feel for those who struggle through this day. Those with empty arms, who long for a baby. Those with empty arms because their child is no longer with them. Those who no longer have their own mother anymore. It is a bittersweet day. I find it difficult to savor the joy of the day, knowing there are folks around me who are suffering.

Friday, May 8, 2009

My Counter....

...just hit 1000! YIPEE!!

Show Us Where You Live Fridays - Living Room Edition


Kelly is hosting "Show Us Where You Live Friday" over at her blog. This week, we're exploring living rooms. Ready to see my living room?

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I'm kidding! I'm kidding! This is NOT my living room. I just couldn't resist! There are so many lovely living rooms out there. Mine's rather plain, so I thought I'd inject a little humor into the fun!

Have a great day!

Monday, May 4, 2009

Not Me! Monday!



Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

I did not allow my daughter to watch “Annie” three times in a row. I wasn’t too tired to bother redirecting her.

I did not allow my daughter to eat school lunch four days last week, just because she wasn’t having her annual standardized testing and she did not have to take two years worth of tests because she did not skip a year of school.

I did not cry every day, not even once, over precious little Kayleigh. Her situation does not break my heart.*

I did not wash and put away all the winter coats and linens, only to have the weather turn chilly after several days in the 90’s.

I do not like grape k@@l-aid and have not been drinking a half-gallon a day.

I did not get my garden planted (again) after all my transplanted vegetables didn’t die.

I did not take this funny picture of a bull with his tongue up his nose and I don’t think it is funny in the slightest.



What did you not do this week?

*Oh, yes it does. Please remember her family in your prayers as they go through these very trying days.

Saturday, May 2, 2009

4 Things About Me

In case you were wondering…

Four paying jobs I have had in my life:

1. Accountant

2. Controller

3. Financial Director

4. Telemarketer

Four movies I've watched more than once:

1. Witness

2. A Time to Kill

3 It’s a Wonderful Life

4. White Christmas (both versions)


Four places I have been:

1. Southeastern US

2. New England

3. Southwestern US

4. Pacific Northwest

Four of my favorite foods:

1. Chicken

2. Tomatoes

3. Broccoli

4. Cheese


Things I like to do:

1. Sleeping

2. Reading

3. Scrapbooking

4. Traveling

Four TV shows I watch:

1. Law & Order (all of them)

2. Mythbusters

3. I really don’t watch TV very much, so this is a stumper

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Purple Iris

 

Yesterday's Photoshoot

Last night, I held my very first photoshoot. It was for a group of nine related senior adults; and I had the privilege of capturing them with my camera. While I won’t post any of the photos I took of them, since I don’t have permission to do so, I will post a beautiful flower that I shot in their driveway. Enjoy